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I feel embarassed :(

I feel embarassed :(

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Saraj
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12-08-2016, 07:56 AM
#1
Took my 2 year old son to the local park today, everytime i took him previously its always been quiet or young families visiting.

this time there were alot of kids from the local high school, and some of the stuff coming out of they mouth even embarassed me.

seriously though, are these the next generation? ok im only 21, but some of the things said to each other, i wouldnt even say to that driver who was up my backside on the motorway today.

i question whether i want my son's to be in that enviroment in primary school and high school, and remeber some of these kids had primary school uniform on !

i keep thinking i should start saving now and get them a private education or send them to a Islamic school, were manners and culture is taught at a higher level then any high school.

ok fair enough i swear sometimes, but to myself never out aloud or very occasionally, but every other word to be swearing, my god, and going around the playground and spitting !

head down in shame...........

:cursing::cursing:

[COLOR="Gray"]December 2008: Crashed Lexus IS200 - Cat B Write Off
August 2009: Crashed Vauxhall Astra - Minor Damage DIY Repair
November 2009: Crashed Vauxhall Astra - Scratches To Bumper No Repair Required
February 2010: Other Party Crashed Into Astra - Extensive Damage To Rear -Settled With Third Party's Insurance
Anyone dare To Predict The Future?[/COLOR]
Saraj
12-08-2016, 07:56 AM #1

Took my 2 year old son to the local park today, everytime i took him previously its always been quiet or young families visiting.

this time there were alot of kids from the local high school, and some of the stuff coming out of they mouth even embarassed me.

seriously though, are these the next generation? ok im only 21, but some of the things said to each other, i wouldnt even say to that driver who was up my backside on the motorway today.

i question whether i want my son's to be in that enviroment in primary school and high school, and remeber some of these kids had primary school uniform on !

i keep thinking i should start saving now and get them a private education or send them to a Islamic school, were manners and culture is taught at a higher level then any high school.

ok fair enough i swear sometimes, but to myself never out aloud or very occasionally, but every other word to be swearing, my god, and going around the playground and spitting !

head down in shame...........

:cursing::cursing:


[COLOR="Gray"]December 2008: Crashed Lexus IS200 - Cat B Write Off
August 2009: Crashed Vauxhall Astra - Minor Damage DIY Repair
November 2009: Crashed Vauxhall Astra - Scratches To Bumper No Repair Required
February 2010: Other Party Crashed Into Astra - Extensive Damage To Rear -Settled With Third Party's Insurance
Anyone dare To Predict The Future?[/COLOR]

russelllinn
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12-08-2016, 08:14 AM
#2
I know what you mean mate, it is getting worse and unfortunately I hear it every day. They just don't have the same respect as it used to be (and i'm only 28!!)
I worry what environment my little one is gonna go into, I was lucky enough to go to private school and never met any of these type of kids so thinking the same route if I can save up.
russelllinn
12-08-2016, 08:14 AM #2

I know what you mean mate, it is getting worse and unfortunately I hear it every day. They just don't have the same respect as it used to be (and i'm only 28!!)
I worry what environment my little one is gonna go into, I was lucky enough to go to private school and never met any of these type of kids so thinking the same route if I can save up.

Lexusboy
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12-08-2016, 08:19 AM
#3
Saraj i know of one person on here that makes you swear (but we won't say who lol

I do know what you mean though but don't think that any school is different.
It is a shame that kids do not have respect for anyone these days.

It is also very worrying that kids as young as 10 have killed other children.
Lexusboy
12-08-2016, 08:19 AM #3

Saraj i know of one person on here that makes you swear (but we won't say who lol

I do know what you mean though but don't think that any school is different.
It is a shame that kids do not have respect for anyone these days.

It is also very worrying that kids as young as 10 have killed other children.

Saraj
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12-08-2016, 08:26 AM
#4
Lexusboy Saraj i know of one person on here that makes you swear (but we won't say who lol

I do know what you mean though but don't think that any school is different.
It is a shame that kids do not have respect for anyone these days.

It is also very worrying that kids as young as 10 have killed other children.

Very true Ian, that member just seems to wind me up so much haha

It is true with the schools, i went to state school, and grew up in a enviroment of swearing but came out good in terms of friends i use to hang with

2 of them are in jail for drug dealing, another arressted last week for a 300,000 insurance fraud, i wondered he got his BMW's convertibles from lol

but me, no criminal convictions, dont smoke never taken drugs, so i do think its how you bring them up in your own home, my parents werent strict just normal? and we all turned out right

[COLOR="Gray"]December 2008: Crashed Lexus IS200 - Cat B Write Off
August 2009: Crashed Vauxhall Astra - Minor Damage DIY Repair
November 2009: Crashed Vauxhall Astra - Scratches To Bumper No Repair Required
February 2010: Other Party Crashed Into Astra - Extensive Damage To Rear -Settled With Third Party's Insurance
Anyone dare To Predict The Future?[/COLOR]
Saraj
12-08-2016, 08:26 AM #4

Lexusboy Saraj i know of one person on here that makes you swear (but we won't say who lol

I do know what you mean though but don't think that any school is different.
It is a shame that kids do not have respect for anyone these days.

It is also very worrying that kids as young as 10 have killed other children.

Very true Ian, that member just seems to wind me up so much haha

It is true with the schools, i went to state school, and grew up in a enviroment of swearing but came out good in terms of friends i use to hang with

2 of them are in jail for drug dealing, another arressted last week for a 300,000 insurance fraud, i wondered he got his BMW's convertibles from lol

but me, no criminal convictions, dont smoke never taken drugs, so i do think its how you bring them up in your own home, my parents werent strict just normal? and we all turned out right


[COLOR="Gray"]December 2008: Crashed Lexus IS200 - Cat B Write Off
August 2009: Crashed Vauxhall Astra - Minor Damage DIY Repair
November 2009: Crashed Vauxhall Astra - Scratches To Bumper No Repair Required
February 2010: Other Party Crashed Into Astra - Extensive Damage To Rear -Settled With Third Party's Insurance
Anyone dare To Predict The Future?[/COLOR]

Moley
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6,230
12-08-2016, 08:49 AM
#5
If you bring up your kids to know the wright from wrong then that means you have done a good job.

Kids swearing is just them trying to be More grown up.
And if all they do wrong in life is swear then good on them.
Everyone swears even though some will not admit to it.
:cursing::cursing::biggrin:
There is a LOT WORSE things in life !!!!!!!!!!

Lexus IS200 Mods--TTE Supercharger, Tein Superstreet Coilovers & EDFC, 6000K HID Lights, HKS Silent High Power Exhaust, DBA Front Discs, Kenwood DNX9240 Head Unit, 19" Rims, TRD Kit, FIGS Bonnet Struts, Greddy Pillar Pod & Defi Gauges, TTE Red ARBS . And Been To WIM twice
Moley
12-08-2016, 08:49 AM #5

If you bring up your kids to know the wright from wrong then that means you have done a good job.

Kids swearing is just them trying to be More grown up.
And if all they do wrong in life is swear then good on them.
Everyone swears even though some will not admit to it.
:cursing::cursing::biggrin:
There is a LOT WORSE things in life !!!!!!!!!!


Lexus IS200 Mods--TTE Supercharger, Tein Superstreet Coilovers & EDFC, 6000K HID Lights, HKS Silent High Power Exhaust, DBA Front Discs, Kenwood DNX9240 Head Unit, 19" Rims, TRD Kit, FIGS Bonnet Struts, Greddy Pillar Pod & Defi Gauges, TTE Red ARBS . And Been To WIM twice

FirebirdPhil
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12-08-2016, 08:52 AM
#6
The problem is the so called "political correctness and Children's rights brigade" this has made life very hard for teachers/police to discipline children when they need to be disciplined.

Children are now only to well aware of their so called "rights" as are the parents looking for a quick buck should the teacher discipline their child - they can't even tell a child its been "naughty".

This society is FAR to lenient and soft touch. I understand the need for children to be safe but it has gone to far the other way now and children are IMHO at more risk because they are free to run wild with little or no consequences.

"Life's goal is not to arrive safely at the grave in a well preserved body. But, rather to skid in sideways........
totally worn out and broken, shouting 'Holy ****, WHAT A RIDE!'"
FirebirdPhil
12-08-2016, 08:52 AM #6

The problem is the so called "political correctness and Children's rights brigade" this has made life very hard for teachers/police to discipline children when they need to be disciplined.

Children are now only to well aware of their so called "rights" as are the parents looking for a quick buck should the teacher discipline their child - they can't even tell a child its been "naughty".

This society is FAR to lenient and soft touch. I understand the need for children to be safe but it has gone to far the other way now and children are IMHO at more risk because they are free to run wild with little or no consequences.


"Life's goal is not to arrive safely at the grave in a well preserved body. But, rather to skid in sideways........
totally worn out and broken, shouting 'Holy ****, WHAT A RIDE!'"

Lexusboy
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12-08-2016, 08:57 AM
#7
100% RIGHT Phil:thumbup:
Lexusboy
12-08-2016, 08:57 AM #7

100% RIGHT Phil:thumbup:

Moley
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12-08-2016, 08:58 AM
#8
But its all down to the parents to bring them correctly, NO one else

Like I said before if they know right from wrong then all will be good.

Well thats what I did with my daughter who is now just about 21 , so I have proof it works.

Lexus IS200 Mods--TTE Supercharger, Tein Superstreet Coilovers & EDFC, 6000K HID Lights, HKS Silent High Power Exhaust, DBA Front Discs, Kenwood DNX9240 Head Unit, 19" Rims, TRD Kit, FIGS Bonnet Struts, Greddy Pillar Pod & Defi Gauges, TTE Red ARBS . And Been To WIM twice
Moley
12-08-2016, 08:58 AM #8

But its all down to the parents to bring them correctly, NO one else

Like I said before if they know right from wrong then all will be good.

Well thats what I did with my daughter who is now just about 21 , so I have proof it works.


Lexus IS200 Mods--TTE Supercharger, Tein Superstreet Coilovers & EDFC, 6000K HID Lights, HKS Silent High Power Exhaust, DBA Front Discs, Kenwood DNX9240 Head Unit, 19" Rims, TRD Kit, FIGS Bonnet Struts, Greddy Pillar Pod & Defi Gauges, TTE Red ARBS . And Been To WIM twice

FirebirdPhil
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12-08-2016, 09:03 AM
#9
Agreed Moley, BUT the school also has a huge influence on the child, if there is no discipline there then all your hard work could be undone.....

"Life's goal is not to arrive safely at the grave in a well preserved body. But, rather to skid in sideways........
totally worn out and broken, shouting 'Holy ****, WHAT A RIDE!'"
FirebirdPhil
12-08-2016, 09:03 AM #9

Agreed Moley, BUT the school also has a huge influence on the child, if there is no discipline there then all your hard work could be undone.....


"Life's goal is not to arrive safely at the grave in a well preserved body. But, rather to skid in sideways........
totally worn out and broken, shouting 'Holy ****, WHAT A RIDE!'"

Lexusboy
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12-08-2016, 09:04 AM
#10
But how many single mother sons run there home?
Lexusboy
12-08-2016, 09:04 AM #10

But how many single mother sons run there home?

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